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Why Handmade Matters

sewing-clipart-Rcdo7aXc9 (1)I was rather inspired to see an article from a few months ago that a friend recently re-posted on her social media, and with that in mind, I thought I’d try and recreate it, but giving it slightly more relevance to the UK, and what is going on in our own economy right now (the original article is American).  There is a lot to be said for choosing something handmade over buying something mass produced.

Of course, anyone in the Handmade business know that the notion of ‘Handmade’ does not equal cheap, its a long held yet now inaccurate idea, that derives from the need to ration and reuse whatever people could during and post war where old worn out adult clothes repurposed into ‘new’ smaller childrens clothes, old jumpers would be pulled back and reused to make a new one, new vegetables from seeds that would otherwise be thrown away – but now, not so, we will buy new fabric for new clothes, new wool for jumpers, we will buy new seeds – and all the other things that come with it.

Most women would be working in the home post war, making these new items for their families, and had these valuable skills taught to them when they were children. Not so now, often we are given no choice to stay at home, whether that is both, or a sole adult household working, and somehow, gradually the basic skills of sewing, knitting, mending and so on have become lost too… As the UK roared ahead with its digital revolution, it left the industrial revolution dying in its wake. Weaving sheds and mills shut down one after the other when it became apparent that importing their fabric from India was much cheaper and weaving jobs became redundant, we had thousands of sewing factories dotted all over the country – indeed my first job on leaving school was in a sewing factory in Blackburn (one of the ‘Cotton Towns‘ of the era.) until they too began shutting their doors when the high street transformed from that of small individual shops buying small scale locally produced clothing etc, to multinational corporations buying in HUGE bulk from India and China because not only was it cheaper to now ave fabric woven overseas, it was much cheaper to have the clothing made over there too.

Suddenly, the skills of sewing, joinery, metalwork, art… all seemed to be seen as “things you’ll never earn a living from” at school and slowly, the subjects became irrelevant, Health & safety and fears of litigation kicked in, and children no longer went near the fiery pottery kiln, or learned what knives to use for what in the kitchen, they stood there watching the teacher sew (just incase a pupil sewed through their nail – formerly this was a source of pride:

“You havent learned how to sew unless you’ve sewn into your hand!!”

Valuable skills have now been lost over the course of a generation, many of us in our 40’s will still have some of those skills, but its often a losing battle to teach a child to sew when there’s Pokemon Go! when skills are devalued to such a point in schools that they’re now hardly taught at all, the reliance on technology and imports is such that those of us who retain those skills are in huge demand – BUT – (and there’s always a but eh?) people still expect a handmade skirt to be cheaper than that one they saw in Primark for £4.99, not only that, they ‘expect’ all that time we put into making that garment for free… “Because its just a hobby… You enjoy it… its only a simple/quick job…” not realising that yes, for many of us, although we may be ‘at home’ that work we do, that we can never escape from it because we never actually ‘leave work’ its how we pay the bills, its how we buy Jack’s new football boots, its what pays for our supermarket shop.

A fellow corset making friend of mine recently shared an image (not the one I have randomly picked here) of a generic ‘corset’ (I use that term loosely!!) that can be picked up from any number of Goth/Alt/Fetish stores on the internet – they were selling them wholesale for just £8.99 each – now, as a guide, as an independent maker, I would be able to buy the front busk closure of a corset for that IF i went to collect it myself from the supplier to save on postage costs – Nothing else – JUST A BUSK.

Corset Busk from £9.00 each
Example Imported Corset £8.99


So, now I’ve had a little whine, WHY SHOULD YOU BUY HANDMADE?

It’s Valuing Creativity

When we make something, we leave a part of ourselves in it. We sit, we nurture an idea, we work and we finally create it, we take immense pride in our work partly because we see ourselves in it. The finished piece is reflective of the creator.

When you buy something that someone else made, you yourself are reflected in that purchase, your tastes, your thoughts – what or who you were thinking about when you bought that piece, you were thinking of their likes, dislikes, memories, friendship… all of which are individual to you and/or the person you are buying it for.

Whether it’s the colour, the texture, the shape, or just the mood you happen to be in, an item that has been crafted is an expression of the creative spirit person who made it, the feelings and emotions of the person who bought it, right through to the person who receives it.  It is treasured and valued far beyond an item that was made for worldly mass consumption that was picked off the shelf of hundreds of identical, emotionless pieces found in hundreds of homes throughout the land – that Handmade item is as unique as each one of us.

A Handmade Item Cannot be Duplicated

No two handmade items are exactly alike. Variations in colour, shading, texture, shape and grain are inherent in a handmade item. If you are asking someone to commission an item for you, then you can have endless possibilities to make it yours, So if you love those pants, but hate the hemline, you can have it, love that jacket but hate the fabric? well, change it! want a lasting memory of a departed loved one? Have a Memory Pillow made from a loved one’s favourite shirt.  No two items are alike when its handmade, even if they looks the same, there are often subtle differences. This means that every handmade item you purchase is also one-of-a-kind. What’s not to like about that?

Everything is more beautiful when it’s made from the heart

tesco-supermarket-birthday-cakes_497733Picture the scene, you’re having friends over for a meal… now, you can serve your guests a generic iced cake from Tesco that cost you £4.99 or you can treat them to the one you made yourself.  The Tesco one will do, its a cake, but the sponge doesnt really taste of much does it? its been made with overly sweet buttercream, and the fondant icing is a bit thick (and sweet) , its a cake, it does the job and no one is going to rave about how delicious it was are they?

homemade-cakeOr, you could be inspired by something you saw on The Great British Bake Off (whether that is Paul Hollywood’s sparkly blue eyes or  that perfectly risen Madeira sponge is totally between me and you!) You spend the afternoon making it, decorating it, you make it yours, stick fresh fruit and fresh cream on it and then listen to the praise from your friends whilst they are mid-scoff.

A cursory look on Facebook and their thousands of assorted craft groups and you will see that there is a consumer shift happening. A movement if you will. More and more, people are willing to be educated about the value of a item that is made by hand – whether that is learning how to make a cake, or a skirt or a book case, or its people searching out those groups and pages to post a request for such an item for a loved one.  People are starting to dream about things that don’t exist yet, but should, they ask themselves “If only it did X… How can I MAKE IT do X?” and then they make it come to life for others to enjoy as well.

This is why handmade matters. Surely everyone can understand that.

The original article in which I may have pinched a few quotes from is here: http://smallbiztrends.com/2016/05/why-handmade-matters.html 

Mind Your Manners!

Like many specialist industries, Fine corsetry is one of those niche talents, many of us work for years at our ‘hobby’ to get to where we are, I personally have only been doing this for 4 years which is a mere hiccup in the timescale of some other corsetieres, some were lucky enough to be able to study fashion at college and/or university, some have spent time on unpaid (or minimally paid) internships, volunteered for other makers, whilst others basically slugged it out for years, subsidising their corset making with other paid work.  One thing I can say with all certainty is that regardless of whether we studies by book, by web, or by educational means, its cost us all many thousands of pounds of our own money to be able to do what we do.  Which leads me to the point of this blog post:

Is it any wonder why we get a bit narked when someone outright asks us to give away our methods, our suppliers, our time, our skills… to someone who cannot grasp the basic functions of the Library/Google?

Somehow the laws of etiquette flew out of the window in the age of the internet, I reluctantly acknowledge that yes, I was around (just) before the internet was ‘mainstream’ I was in my teens when I got a Commodore 64k, (64K of Ram… can you imagine that now?!) with its tape deck, where you typed line upon line of code so that you could see “Hello World!” come up on the screen in the vain hope someone… anyone would reply (but never did)

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But back in the day, and heck even now… would you for example, stop a solicitor on the street and demand free legal advice? would you ask a plumber to fix your leaky shower… right now, for free? would then you ask that plumber for a list of his suppliers so you can bypass him/her and get all your materials cheaper whilst your at it… and then send a barrage of messages to them asking them how to do it when you cant figure out how to plumb in that shower on your own?  Of course you wouldn’t! But yet… and corsetry is by no means alone here – its fine to do precisely this?  In the last few months, I have personally seen a lot of this happen, a few such examples are:

  • “Did you draft that pattern yourself, if so, can i have a copy?”
  • “Tell me what pattern number it is and where do I get one?”
  • “I want that corset, where is the link/who did it (name is literally plastered ALL OVER the photo)
  • “Please can i have a list of your fabric suppliers?”
  • “I want a corset made for me for a shoot, you wont be paid but think of the exposure!”
  • “Oooh that (Vintage/French/Imported) Lace is gorgeous, do you have any left over that i can have… i’ll pay post!”
  • “I want someone to teach me how to make corsets, I want someone in the <insert country/area> so i can get step by step instructions and be able to come to your house if i get stuck… for free… obvs!” (??!!)

I’ve had people wanting me to guide them through “someone else’s” corset repair, or corset construction via Facebook Messenger on four separate occasions, one even got very mad, sending a barrage of messages, accusing me of being ignorant and snotty when I didnt respond to their demands and threatened to spread lies about my work (that they’d never seen) because I refused to give them one-on-one online tutorial and support (for free of course)  I wouldn’t even say that I am anywhere near the standard of some more accomplished makers that I know of… I certainly wouldn’t be confident of being able to teach a novice how to start when in general conversation they ask “What do you mean by straight grain?”.

People seem to have lost the art of wanting to find out things, to absorb information as and when it comes along, lost the art of experimenting, and getting it wrong… ‘happy accidents’ if you will, rather than go to the library, or buy a book on corsetry and reading it, or going onto Google and typing a question (and God forbid have to look through a few search results!) they would rather go onto social media and ask their question where they could wait hours or even days for a subjective answer (and often several different ones) The whole Google issue troubles me, I dont understand why someone would sit for hours waiting for a forum reply to a question like:

Coutil Suppliers

When Google literally told me in less than 0.51 seconds that there were several local suppliers I could go to. I could even get some basic corsetry tutorials online in the same amount of time (of course nothing will ever beat one-on-one in person tutorials like I was lucky enough to experience) and 4 years on, I’m still teaching myself, pushing boundaries, techniques, reading…

The whole way we have of effective communication (or lack thereof) has changed and yes, times change and we need to change with it, but since when did that equal demanding? Where did the expectation of free ‘stuff’ even become a thing?


Again, on other craft forums I am a member of (I am also a fairly apt pencil drawer, general sewer & knitter) I see openly rude demands for free things, people telling other crafts-persons that they want personalised bespoke items but they wont pay for them “until I see it in my own hands” Would they demand that Studio for example (mass produced personalised gifts) send them lots of things before they will pay up? would they place a big order with, say, Amazon, and refuse to pay until Amazon delivered all of their stuff for their approval first? of course not… so why the sudden lack of etiquette when speaking to individual corsetieres and crafts-persons? What happened to make this acceptable?

There are many arts and crafts that are (or were) a dying art, just several decades ago many people would sew their own clothes as a matter of course, everything was cooked from scratch, often even grown in the garden, if you wanted to learn something, the internet wasn’t there, it was either passed down through generations, or you learnt yourself or paid someone to teach you – Now we have cheap clothes on hand whenever we want, you can have a full Sunday roast at the sound of a PING!! if you really want without lifting barely a finger, and Google is there at a keystroke and you’re pretty much guaranteed to find out or learn anything without having to find your local library (if there is even one left in your area)  Such easy to have references should be treasured, and the people who keep old crafts alive should also be treasured.  Please, if you are reading this, do your own little bit to bring a little bit of etiquette back, tell/show a crafts-person how much you appreciate what they do, whether its someone who spent several days knitting your newborn a new hat and jacket, to someone who spends days/weeks making a corset just for you… appreciate what they do, and try not to utter “is that your best price”.

When is a Corset not a Corset – Part 2 – A REAL Corset.

The other day I posted the first part of this, what is NOT a corset featuring those, quite frankly, ugly car tyre innertube contraptions. So today I’m going to go onto what is a corset – but first, im really sorry to break this to you all, but so long as i draw breath, I will never consider one of these to be a real corset – ever.

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This particular one is an infamous Corsets UK/Corset Story/Corset Wholesale/Corset Deal/ Punk 69/ whatever other domain they can get their hands on ‘corset shaped(ish) garment. Yes it has a few separate panels, Yes it has a busk, Yes, it has lacing at the back, and yes, it has steel bones (sometimes).  Aside from the sheer tackiness of the item (this would count as something a rather naive, and soon to be EX boyfriend might present to their lady on Valentines day perhaps) There are a few things about this piece that should instantly raise suspicion as to why is might not be all that great to not only wear, but might not do what you expect a real corset to do – cinch you in at the waist:

  • These are made in Pakistan/China.  whilst some good things come out of Pakistan/China, have you ever looked at the difference in body shape? Western women are, by hereditory and diet/nutrition more rounded, and curvier than say, a Chinese woman.  This is not to say ALL western women are curvy, and ALL Chinese Women are slim & boyish, but you get the idea.  This could explain why so many of this companies ‘corsets’ look like tubes, and have no real curve – dont let those photoshopped pictures fool you!
  • Have you ever wondered why a corsetiere in the UK will charge you anywhere from £150 upwards and well into the thousands in some cases, for a corset, yet Corsets UK et al can sell them for £50 or LESS? its not because we are greedy, its because we we have a UK minimum wage  per hour which is more than some of these places pay their workers PER MONTH.  
  • The materials we use are top quality, to give you an idea, I have just finished a commission where i used a ‘spoon busk’ that spoon busk alone cost me £28. However, several corsetieres I know, including myself (pictured) have actually cut apart these imported ones to find them full of scrap metal, electricians tape and other things: I doubt the sum total of the busk was 28p.

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VALKYRIE CORSETS Gorgeous corset from Valkyrie Corsets (modeled by Threnody in Velvet)

waisted creations darkteaser Beautiful mesh & lace corset by Waisted Creations (modeled by Darkteaser)

Vanyanis Hand beaded corset by Vanyanis (modeled by Threnody in Velvet)

2013-11-07 00.07.57-1 Applique lace & crystal corset by Curvitude Corsetry (Model CoCo Fierce)

There are so many other designers that I absolutely adore and aspire to be as good as, that this blog post would go on forever, so ill stop with 4 (including my own work of course) and simply say that:

if you want curves like the ones that a real corset will give you, save up your pennies and buy a real corset!

Many corsetieres work off bespoke made of order’s but there are still a few companies who sell off the rack corsets that are real corsets, and are suitable for waist training and tightlacing (yes, there IS a difference and many people do get the two confused) and this is something im going to discuss soon – probably in my next blog post.

Now, where are those Hob Nobs again?

You Charge HOW MUCH?! (aka The true cost of bespoke corsetry & clothing)

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It’s a phrase that, regardless of how many times corsetieres, dressmakers & assorted craft people alike hear it, it still stings, it still makes you doubt yourself, it still makes you feel you have to justify your craft – even yourself.  It never gets easier to hear, regardless of how you handle it to the outside world – phrases like:

  • Wow… that’s more than i thought….
  • Oh, it’s rather expensive.
  • I can get a corset for £30 from (insert imported online retailer here) – why are yours so expensive?
  • My friend who knows  someone who will make me one for free if I buy the fabric.
  • You must be very good to think you can charge so much.
  • I thought this was just your hobby?

Its not JUST limited to corsetry, ask any dressmaker, any person who makes bags, brooches, knits jumpers.. they’ll all tell you about ‘The Expression’ the expression when some customers get told how much their bespoke item will cost to make, the expression when all manner of thoughts are running through their head whilst attempting not to say something negative – that usually ends up being negative anyway – The expression that tells you that the chances are, this person is not a ‘crafty’ person and has no real grasp of just how much raw materials cost, let alone that you will *gasp* want to pay yourself a wage for working. Working you say? but surely this is a hobby?

Its both – I have no paid outside employment, Yes, I enjoy what I do – sometimes (when things go effortlessly right, when the seam ripper is NOT my eternal friend, when my sewing machine behaves…) but I need money, I need money to buy the raw materials, I need money to pay my mortgage, my bank manager likes it very much when that happens… There is also the question of equipment, machines, space, raw materials, training, research… to give a rough idea of what I have spent monetary wise in the last 3 years, purely related to corsetry, I have a little (non exhaustive) list:

  • Sewing Machines – 1 x Overlocker (serger) £200, 1 x Embroidery machine £800 plus software £1000, 1 x steam iron (with reservoir & stand) £200, 2 x (vintage) Singer machines (cheaper than buying an industrial Juki), plus servicing and electric conversion kits £300

Total Est Cost: £2,500

  • Training courses & Qualifications – Level 1 & level 2 NVQ in Fashion & Textiles plus expenses = £500 (other courses in the pipeline but not paid so far approx £1000), 3 x Courses (so far) on Pattern Drafting, Underbust corsetry techniques, Overbust corsetry techniques (3 x £250) = £750, plus travel/petrol = £150 approx, plus accommodation 9 nights approx = £630

Total Est Cost: £3,030

  • Books/Memberships – Like any craft or hobby, a good supply of books, research, website memberships and so on is vital.  I have a bookshelf full of, and dedicated to corsetry and related topics that are there so I can refer to them if I need tips on historical accuracy, the look of the time, how to do certain techniques and so on – Historical fashion books, modern designers, Le More Illustre books, pattern cutting, embellishment technique books, dressmaking, specific corsetry authors.. plus monthly membership fee’s to online resources. Again an estimation of what I’ve spent on these over the last few years.

Total Est Cost – £2000

  • Misc Hardware/Tools – Various pliers, Bolt Cutters, Eyelet setting press, Awls, Rotary Cutters & blades, cutting Boards, Sheers, Tailors Hams,  task lighting, pattern card and papers, Spiral steel boning of various thicknesses, flat steel bonings, various sizes of busks, eyelets, boning end caps…I can’t even begin to think how much ive spent here, but its safe to quote a figure of around £1800 but likely more

Total Est Cost £1800

  • Misc FabricsANY crafter will attest to their ‘Fabric Stash’ (including secret stashes hidden from their significant others) these are not only those “oooh pretty” fabrics that are randomly picked up, fabrics on sale, but staple fabrics that you *know* are asked for frequently, so a good stock of basic fabrics, cottons, drills, duchesse satin’s, silks, tafetta’s.. plus the inevitable stock needed of medium weight calico for client mock ups, and that corsetry necessity (and expensive) coutil fabric needed for the strength layers which can cost anywhere between £9-25 per meter) having gone through my current fabric stock, i’d say there is several thousand pounds worth of stock, and this is a continuous outlay.

Total Est Cost £3000

  • Misc additional corsetry materials – More materials you say? heck yes! these include corsetry lacing, bias bindings, bone casing tapes, waist tapes, herringbone tapes, fancy laces (£25+ per meter easily), swarovski’s, crystals, beads, studs/spikes and all manner of fancy, pretty things and sewing threads (Gutermann is the more expensive, but having tried others, they just aren’t strong enough for the demands of corsetry –  a 1000m reel of plain white thread is almost £9 in the shops) I’ve probably missed a lot of things here but you get the idea!

Total Est Cost £1000

  • The last and final outlay, the one no one like to speak of, the losses that need to be factored in and absorbed. Craftspeople the country wide will speak of their naivety in the fledgling business beginnings over those people who didnt pay or only partially paid for their item right down to those who paid, received their item then immediately did a chargeback, Ebay/Etsy type sales where the buyers then claims it wasn’t ‘the right shade/colour’ or it was damaged (dare I say, after wearing it for the posh do they wanted it for) and issue Paypal disputes… and so, these extra costs of what is essentially theft are inevitably re-absorbed into the final cost of the items.

So even here, the total monetary cost of what I’ve spent is before I’ve even sewn a stitch, before I’ve actually sat down, spent any time researching, drafting a pattern for a client, or done any actual work at all. It’s safe to assume that all in all, drafting a pattern, alterations, fittings, down to the finished completed corset can easily take (me) 3 x 8 hour days, Sure, I’m not the quickest, but here you get an idea of the time taken – so even on the UK minimum wage  (which often isn’t applied in our attempts to compete with cheaper imported corsets), would equal £156 just on wage costs alone.  I know of corsetieres who spend 180 HOURS alone on handstitched beading/lace on their beautiful corsets that are more like works of art – if they also charge minimum wage for that on top of the normal rate for the basic corset, plus material costs your easily talking £1500+ and that’s before you’ve factored in the years that they spend learning, training, equipment costs, overheads, shop rentals, we have to find our own ‘Pension Pot’ and our own ‘Holiday Pay’… Luckily in the UK we have the NHS to cover health bills… other countries, that’s another expense…

Now I’ve bored most people to a semi-sleep state by my ramblings, the short answer, is that corsets require specialised skills, specialised equipment and materials to produce, and as a niche item, they are done in small, often individual quantities.  I’ve tried in the past to reduce my prices to compete with ‘fashion’ corsets from High Street Stores or other imported online retailers, but it’s impossible, But I realise that now, and I no longer wish to devalue my skills or my time by trying to compete.  When people Buy British, or come to a locally based, self employed corsetiere or craftsperson, they are doing so much more than paying for a well made, quality item – they are putting back into the British Economy, they are helping to pay for other small businesses to stay afloat, not just those that supply my corsetry materials, (for example, I don’t buy meat from a supermarket chain, I support my local butcher, I buy my fruit & veg mostly from the local markets) your custom to these people might also pay for a child to have ballet/karate/extra maths lessons, College or Uni… It doesn’t just disappear into a tidal wave of Multi-Million Pound Annual Profits –  Isn’t that enough to give you a lovely fuzzy warm feeling inside when you think about it?

Welcome to our new blog!

Well, what can i say! I’d be lying if I said this was my first blog, there have been others, but they have been more along the rambling, ad-hoc type postings that chartered my first footsteps into the world corset making, with other randomness thrown in for good measure.  This new one, is specifically for my brand, Curvitude Corsetry.

Now, I must stress that although this is aimed mainly at my fledgling business, there will still be big slashes of my trademark humour, sarcasm and general bonkers attitude, it wouldn’t be me otherwise! I’ll never pretend to be something other than what I am! There will be glamorous images, some posh and descriptive wording, but really, dont be surprised if there’s some zany and odd posts on here too!

I’m hardly going to portray an image of an immaculately manicured and dressed lady smelling of Lily of the Valley who has Bach gently playing in the background, whilst sewing corsetry for a client (It kinda happens… occasionally… ?!) When the real image is me, in sweatpants, with no make-up on, swearing under my breath after whacking my thumb with a hammer whilst setting eyelets, whilst a heavy/black/classic metal CD grunts away in the background (Most likely of scenarios) It makes me relevant and edgy… or something.

Here on this blog im going to treat you to a more ‘Behind the Scenes’ experience, client pictures, stories, maybe a few info-articles, links to video’s and step-by-step project insights – I often do these if im tackling a new type of corset design, it not only helps me to vent (as we all need to occasionally!) but helps to chart progress, and give prospective clients an idea of how the different corsetry shaping and designs will REALLY look.

Anyway, enough of my rambling introduction!